How to Find a Good Escort
People want companionship, even if they have to pay for it. That is why about 20% of men in the U.S. have had experience with prostitution of some sort. And there is nothing wrong with that. As long as everyone feels safe and is a consenting adult, that is.
We would like to point out the differences between a regular prostitute/sex worker and an escort. The main difference is that a prostitute does not need a license. They are only hired to have sex or perform sexual activities. An escort, on the other hand, is someone to take on dates, social events, and spend time with. A lot of clients just want to talk to someone rather than have sex with them.
Where to Find Them?
There are many ways to find a good male or female escort. However, you have to narrow down the list to make sure that you are spending time with someone with a license and not get scammed. The most important step is finding the right place with good escorts. Many escort agencies use online advertising, and the largest ones are:
- CityVibe.com
- Backpage.com
- Eros.com
There are also several forums on Reddit where people ask for suggestions and advice.
That can be a good starting point. However, the most important thing is research. Look at the photos and do reverse image searches to see where they came from. If it is a stock image or something taken from an online magazine, it would be best to look elsewhere. Also, if the escort’s page says that they can do multiple cities, you should be very wary since that can indicate a scam.
Choosing the Perfect Escort
Once you have found an agency that meets your standards, you can start to think about who you would like to hire. Escorts are more known for providing a part-time boyfriend or girlfriend experience than sexual services. You can always opt for the latter, though.
However, when it comes to choosing your first escort, you may want to look at reviews. They can cover many topics and give you a good idea of what to expect. You cannot go off of one review alone, though. Maybe that five-star review was a plant for the agency to make themselves look good. On the other hand, a bad review could be just a one-time bad experience.
Therefore, read multiple reviews from different sites to get a clearer image of what you can expect. You may even try using social media groups to see what others have to say about their time with escorts.
Also, try to spend some extra time with someone that you want to hire again. There can be pros and cons to hiring the same escort for every event or date. There is often a sense of natural familiarity that can arise with more than one meeting, and that may lead to discounts if everything goes well. It is not a guarantee since the escort is just doing their job. The cons are possible boredom on both sides. But, you won’t know until you try, and you may have to try a few times till you find the “perfect” one for you.
Why do men use prostitutes? Find out in this The Guardian article.
What Are the Terms and Limitations?
Terms and limitations can vary from agency to agency and even escort to escort. Therefore, you should be clear about what they are with the agency and the escort that you are hiring. Escorts usually charge per hour, and they can be quite expensive, so it is a good idea to go through the rules to make sure that you both have a good time. The escort’s job is to make sure that you are happy, but knowing how far you can go will just make their life and yours that much easier.
Escorts are required to be licensed, as well as to undergo many testing for STDs and other diseases. Another factor to know is that they cannot be drunk or under the influence of drugs while they are with you. Also, they cannot engage in behavior that could lead to their or your harm. And condoms are a must too.
Many escorts would require you to send references, for example:
- References from two past escorts that you had hired (not possible for a first-timer, so you should focus on the next two)
- Verification credentials (like a LinkedIn profile, for example)
- Employment information
They want to know that the person that is hiring them is not a serial killer, human-trafficker, or all-around “creep.” Because you can look them up, they want to do the same to you. Therefore, it would be better to be straightforward and ask a lot of questions. Also, mention your fantasies, so they can do a better job.
Payment Options
You should always look into the payment methods. You may be able to pay online. However, the old-school method that still works today is putting the cost of the session into a blank, white envelope and slightly handing it over. But, do not bring up the topic of money ever while on the date. If they are coming to your place, you can leave the envelope at an easy to spot place in your home.
The cost of hiring an escort can depend on what you want to do with them — and for how long. The best thing you can do is get into contact with the agency through their sites to understand the available payment options. You should do that first before deciding if you want to hire them.
Last Round
Using escort services is different from booking a prostitute. Escorts are referred to as paid companionship. Therefore, they should be treated as such if you want to have a good time at more than one event. And always remember — stay safe!